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óg wixflhsh l,am ,laI 4 lg fmr fuu ñys ;,h u; wisßu;a isÿùula isÿúh' tod §mxlr nqÿka mduq, wm f.!;u iïud iïnqÿ mshdkka jykafia m,uq jrg ksh; újrK ,o fial' ksh; újrk ,nk wjia:dfõ§ hfYdaOrdjo fiaúldjl f,i t;ku isáhdh' iqfïO ;jqika ksh; újrK ,nk fõ,dfõ wehgo §mxlr nqÿka jykafia f.ka újrK ,eìk' ta fï ;dla l,a weh l, lem lsÍu Wka jykafia nqÿ kqjKska ÿgq ksidh' ;j;a wixflhsh l,am ,laI y;rlg miq fuu ;dmifhda f.!;u kñka iïud iïnqoaO;ajhg m;ajk nj;a" fuu mskaj;a ia;%sh tf;la fuu mskaj;a mqreIhdf.a Nd¾Hdj f,i ;u Ôú;h lem lr Wka jykafiaf.a ksjka idlaId;a lsÍu msKsi ;u Èú fojeks fldg Wka jykafiag  Wmldr lrk nj;a" weho tu idikfha§u uydkqNdj iïmkak uy ry;a f;rKshla f,i ksjka idlaId;a lrk nj;a §mxlr nqÿ mshdkka jykafia wehgo újrK § jod, fial' ^ wixflhshla hkq 1g ìkaÿ 140 la fh¥ úg ,efnk b,laluhs - idrdixflhsh l,am ,laIhla hkq " l,am .kkska ,laI y;r 1hs ìkaÿ 140 ka .=K lsÍfuka ,efnk ms,s;=rhs&

t;eka mgka wixflhsh l,am ,laI y;rla uq¿,af,a weh l, lem lsÍu wkka;h' wm%udKh' Wka jykafia wehj ,laI jdr .kkla  wka whg oka § we;' ta;a weh lsis Èkl oafõIhla isf;a we;slr .;af;a ke;' iuyr wjia:dj,§ wehj oka § ;snqfka hlaIhkagh' Wka wehj urdf.k lk fj,dfõ wehg oekqkq fõokdj fuf;lehs lshd ksu lrkakg fkdyelsh' mK msáka isák hfYdaordf.a w; mh lvd f.k fï hlaIhka lk úg" wehg fukjd isf;kakg we;ao@ wfka ta;a weh lsisu wjia:djl wm fndai;dkka jykafiag ffjr lf,a ke;' Wka jykafiaf.a odk mdrï;dj mQ¾K fõjdhs lshd m%d¾:kd l,d muKs' fndai;dkka jykafia urKhg m;afldg ;u wdydr fõ, lr .ekSug meñKs jHd>%hkag" isxyhkag ;ud ì,sù Wka jykafia f.a Ôú;g fìrd .;a jdr .kk wkka;h wm%udKh' ;udf.a mK fuka wdrlaId l, orejka oka ÿka jdr .kk wkka;h wm%udKh' ia;%Ska wdYd lrk wdNrK" f.a fodr j;= msá oka ÿka jdr .kk lsj fkdyels ;rï jeäh' tmuKla fkdj ñksiqkaf.a wdhqI b;d wêl ld, j,§ mjd fndaêi;ajhkaf.a mdrñ;d iïmQ¾K lsÍug l, lemùula f,i tlu hykla u; jir úis ;sia ody n%yaupdÍj Ôj;a úh' fujka lem lsÍï ksid;a" wm uyd fndaêi;ajhka f.a iy fuu Wodr ldka;dj f.a wruqKo tllau jQ ksid;a" Wmka iEu wd;au Ndjhl§u fofokdu tlg bm§ug;a " wUq ieñhka f,i isàu;a jdikdj Wodúh' fï fya;=fjka lsisu wd;au Ndjhl§ ;u iyldßh lsisu whqrlska fndai;=ka jykafia f.a wruqKg ndOdjla fkdùh' fndai;=ka jykafiag .e,fmk ldka;djka fiùug wjYH jQfha ke;' O¾u;djhg wkqju hfYdaOrdj Wka jykafia ,`.g meñKshdh'

wo fuu ;;ajh fjkia ù we;' ;udg .e,fmk wh f;dard .ekSug isÿù we;af;a kdkdm%ldr l%u fõohka ;=,sks' tfia fidhd .kakd flkdo ;udg .e,fmkjdo keoao hkak is;d .; fkd yelsjk ;ek y|yka .e,fmao hkak fidhd n,hs' flfia fyda l,a h;au fofokd fome;a;lg ùu oeka idudkH isß;hs' ;udg .e,fmk flkd fidhd .kafka flfiao@ fidhd .;a flkd iu. hym;a hq. Èúhla .; lrkafka flfiao hk lreKq fuu ,smsh u.ska idlÉPd lsÍug n,dfmdfrd;a;= fjñ'

;ud ixidrfha hï Nd¾Hdjla iu. hym;a hq. Èúhla O¾udKql+,j .; l,d kï wo fofokdu fndfydaúg ukqIH f,dj ;=, bmso isákq we;' tfia jkafka fofokdu iu ixldr jvd we;s ksidh' ke;skï fofokdu tll= fia is;k ksidh' ;ukag ,efnkafka ;uka f.a is; ;=, jvk ixldrfha m%;sM,h fõ' fï nj o;a me/kafkda wog;a fofofkla újdyjQ miq tla wfhl= jk nj mjihs' ta fmr l, Ôj;a jQ wh ieu úgu ;u ixidr .; iyldßh fyda iylre fidhd .;a ksidh' Tjqka tfll= fia is;+ ksidh' wo tfia fkdfõ' ìß| jvkafka ;sßix ixldr kï wehf.a Njh ;sßika i;ajfhl= ùug wjYH miqìu ilikq we;' kuq;a ;u iylre jvkafka ñksia ixldrhla fyda foaj ixldrhla úh yelsh' ieñhd ukq f,dj;a ìß| ;sßika f,dj;a Wm; ,oafoa kï fjk;a iy ldßhla fidhd .kakjd ñi fjk ms,sirKla fkdue;s nj wmg fyd¢ka jegfykq we;' iir mqrdjgu fufia isÿ lr f.k hdug isÿjkq we;' ìß| ukqIH wd;au Ndjhl;a ieñhd  wuKqIH wd;au Ndjhl;a isà kï l=uk ;;ajhla isÿfúo' fuu w;aNjfha ukqIHfhla ù bmso isák ìß| fjk;a ieñfhla iu. jdih lsÍu by; lS wukqIHhd fkd bjihs' ;u ìr| kej; ,nd .ekSug fkdfhla Wml%u Ndú;d lrhs' neß jk ;ek ;uka jeäfhkau wdYd l, lduhkag wod, jk ;eklg f.dia ,e.=ï .kS' mshhqre" ,sxf.akaøhka" uqLh fï w;ßka m%uqLh' wm yg fmfkkakg we;s ms,sld j,ska ishhg 95 lau je,f|kafka fuu bkaøshka wdY%s;jh' flfia fyda wjidkfha isÿjkafka ñksiqka fia Wmka fofokdf.a hq. Èúh wid¾:l ùug th fya;= ùuhs' jro isÿjQfha fld;eko@ tod fofokdu tlu ixldrhla fkdjeãu fkdfõo@ fofokd ta wfhl= fia fkdis;Su fkdfõo@

wo f.orl isák wUq ieñhka n,kak' fofokd isákafka wka; follh' ;u ;uka f.a iykh Tjqka ;ksju fidhhs' fofokd lsisúg f.or we;s m%Yakhla j;a tlg l:d fkdlrhs' fndfyd mjq,a j, tla wfhla muKla O¾uhg keUqrej .uka lrhs' wfkldg we;a fjk brku .ek flfia mjikako@ kuq;a krlhd krl ;ekl bm§u fya;=fjka  fyd¢ka ysá flkdg we;s jk ÿlaL odhl ;;ajh woyd .ekSugj;a wmyiqh' ta urKska miqjo wukqIH f,dalfha isg uf.a .EKs fyda ñksyd lshd whs;sjdislï lSu ksidh' oeka fuh ixidr.; m%Yakhla ù yudrh' fuhg ms,s;=r Tnu Èh hq;=j we;' l, hq;= jkafka ixidr.; {d;Ska isysfldg wd¾Hka jykafia flfkl=g fodf,dia msßlr iys; odkhla § ta mska Tjqkag wkqfudaoka lr oeka Tjqka isák ;ekska Wiia ùug Wmldr lsÍuhs' fuh Tnf.a hq. Èúh id¾:l ùugo" YÍr fi!LHh j¾Okh ùugo fya;= jk w;r ;uka fuf;la l,a wm, hehs is;d f.k isá .%y fodaYo ÿre jkq we;'  fï ish¿ hym;a m%;sM, Wodlr .ekSug Tn úiska isÿl, hq;=jkafka ;u ixidr .; {d;s j¾.hd ksoyia lsÍu i|yd jk odkuh mskalula isÿ lsÍuh' fuu uyd mqKHl¾uh isÿlrk wdldrh my; olajd we;s 3 jk ,skala tl ud¾.fhka oek .; yelsh'

;ukag fkd.e,fmk flfkl= yd újdy ù miqj fjka fjkjdg jvd" ;uka n,dfmdfrd;a;=fjka isák ;udg we;a;gu wdorh lrk ;u ixidr.; iylre fidhd .ekSug yelskï th fl;rï jákd odhdohlao@ uq¿ Ôú; ld,hu ;ukag wdorh lrk wjxl iylrefjl= fyda iyldßhl isàkï th ish¿ iem iïm;a mrok nj mejiqjfyd;a th w;sYfhdala;shla fkdjkq we;' Tnf.a lemùu we;akï we;a;gu th isÿl, yelsh' fuh isÿl, yelafla Tnguh' fjk;a woDIHudK n,fõ.hlg th isÿ l, fkdyelsh' hï flfkla fuh isÿ lsÍug leue;a;la we;akï ál ld,hla fï i|yd jeh l, hq;=h' kuq;a bka ,efnk iykh uyd úYd, nj fkdlsjukdh'

m%:ufhka my; i|yka 1 jk ,skala tfla we;s wdldrhg .d:d Èkm;d iÊcdhkd fldg ;u ixidr.; iyldßhg fyda ixidr.; iylreg wdrdOkd l, hq;=h' fu;a jvd fi;a me;sh hq;=h' Tyqf.a fyda wehf.a bIaGfoaj;jka jykafia,dg mska wkqfudaoka l, hq;=h' fuu j;dj;a Èk kjhla tl È.g fyda i;s hlg tla Èkla f;dardf.k i;s kjhla isÿfldg m,uqj ,nk mif,diajl fmdfydh Èk 2 jk weuqKqfï we;s wdldrhg wkqrdOmqr ch Y%S uyd fndaëka jykafia wNshig f.dia my; olajd we;s mqo mQcd meje;aúh hq;=h' wkqrdOmqr hdug fkdyelskï ;uka isák m,df;a fndaëka jykafia wi, fuu mQcdj isÿ l, yel' kuq;a is;ska ;uka isákafka wkqrdOmqr ch Y%S uyd fndaëka jykafia wNshi nj is;d .; hq;=h'

úfYaI ksfõokhls' wirK ck;djf.ka b;du;a widOdrK wdldrhg uqo,a whlr Ydka;sl¾u mj;ajk lmq uy;=ka .yk hq.hl fujka jákd m%;sl¾u úYd, ixLHdjla wm úiska fkdñ,fha bÈßm;a lsÍug n,dfmdfrd;a;=fjka isáuq' kuq;a wm ixy, cd;sfha we;s lD;{;d mQ¾jl nj oeka oeka uelS hkakg mgkaf.k we;s nj mjikafka buy;a lK.dgqfjks' wm Tnf.ka b,a,d isákafka Tn fuu ,sms lshjd n,d wka whg;a oek.ekSu i|yd fIhd¾ lrk f,i muKs' Tng lsisÿ mdvqjla fkdujk fï b,a,Suj;a i,ld ne,Sug ;rïj;a wmf.a ck;dj fmdfydi;a fkdùu ms<sn|j wm is; ;=, we;af;a lkiai,a,ls'

Tn;a fujeks l¾u M,hla f.jk flfkla kï wm úiska f.k tk fuu mKsúvh ;j;a wirKfhl=g msysgùu msksi fIhd¾ lsÍuu tu wl=i, l¾uh ;=kS ùug fya;=jla jk nj is;g .kak' wm fjí wvúh uqo,a bmhSfï wruqKlska f;drj f.khk fuu jev ms,sfj,g w; §ula f,i lreKdlr yels iEu wjia:djlu Tnf.a iudc cd,h ;=, fIhd¾ lrk f,i b;d lreKdfjka b,a,d isáuq' tu.ska Tng lsisÿ wjudkhla isÿ fkdjk nj b;d j.lSfuka okajd Èáuq'

fï;a is;sks'


1' Èk 9la ;=, isÿ l, hq;= nqoaO jkaokdj

2' fndaêka jykafia wNshi l, hq;= mQcdj

3' wkka; ixidr.; {d;s j¾.hd ksoyia lsÍu

4' ffu;%S Ndjkdj

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